net/mlx5: Correctly compare pkt reformat ids

struct mlx5_pkt_reformat contains a naked union of a u32 id and a
dr_action pointer which is used when the action is SW-managed (when
pkt_reformat.owner is set to MLX5_FLOW_RESOURCE_OWNER_SW). Using id
directly in that case is incorrect, as it maps to the least significant
32 bits of the 64-bit pointer in mlx5_fs_dr_action and not to the pkt
reformat id allocated in firmware.

For the purpose of comparing whether two rules are identical,
interpreting the least significant 32 bits of the mlx5_fs_dr_action
pointer as an id mostly works... until it breaks horribly and produces
the outcome described in [1].

This patch fixes mlx5_flow_dests_cmp to correctly compare ids using
mlx5_fs_dr_action_get_pkt_reformat_id for the SW-managed rules.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/ea5264d6-6b55-4449-a602-214c6f509c1e@163.com/T/#u [1]

Fixes: 6a48faee

 ("net/mlx5: Add direct rule fs_cmd implementation")
Signed-off-by: Cosmin Ratiu <cratiu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240409190820.227554-6-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>