fbdev: Remove unused struct fb_deferred_io .first_io field

This optional callback was added in the commit 1f45f9db

 ("fb_defio:
add first_io callback") but it was never used by a driver. Let's remove
it since it's unlikely that will be used after a decade that was added.

Signed-off-by: Javier Martinez Canillas <javierm@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230121192418.2814955-2-javierm@redhat.com