vfio/pds: Fix mutex lock->magic != lock warning

The following BUG was found when running on a kernel with
CONFIG_DEBUG_MUTEXES=y set:

DEBUG_LOCKS_WARN_ON(lock->magic != lock)
RIP: 0010:mutex_trylock+0x10d/0x120
Call Trace:
 <TASK>
 ? __warn+0x85/0x140
 ? mutex_trylock+0x10d/0x120
 ? report_bug+0xfc/0x1e0
 ? handle_bug+0x3f/0x70
 ? exc_invalid_op+0x17/0x70
 ? asm_exc_invalid_op+0x1a/0x20
 ? mutex_trylock+0x10d/0x120
 ? mutex_trylock+0x10d/0x120
 pds_vfio_reset+0x3a/0x60 [pds_vfio_pci]
 pci_reset_function+0x4b/0x70
 reset_store+0x5b/0xa0
 kernfs_fop_write_iter+0x137/0x1d0
 vfs_write+0x2de/0x410
 ksys_write+0x5d/0xd0
 do_syscall_64+0x3b/0x90
 entry_SYSCALL_64_after_hwframe+0x6e/0xd8

As shown, lock->magic != lock. This is because
mutex_init(&pds_vfio->state_mutex) is called in the VFIO open path. So,
if a reset is initiated before the VFIO device is opened the mutex will
have never been initialized. Fix this by calling
mutex_init(&pds_vfio->state_mutex) in the VFIO init path.

Also, don't destroy the mutex on close because the device may
be re-opened, which would cause mutex to be uninitialized. Fix this by
implementing a driver specific vfio_device_ops.release callback that
destroys the mutex before calling vfio_pci_core_release_dev().

Fixes: bb500dbe

 ("vfio/pds: Add VFIO live migration support")
Signed-off-by: Brett Creeley <brett.creeley@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@amd.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231122192532.25791-2-brett.creeley@amd.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>