cifs: do not search for channel if server is terminating

In order to scale down the channels, the following sequence
of operations happen:
1. server struct is marked for terminate
2. the channel is deallocated in the ses->chans array
3. at a later point the cifsd thread actually terminates the server

Between 2 and 3, there can be calls to find the channel for
a server struct. When that happens, there can be an ugly warning
that's logged. But this is expected.

So this change does two things:
1. in cifs_ses_get_chan_index, if server->terminate is set, return
2. always make sure server->terminate is set with chan_lock held

Signed-off-by: Shyam Prasad N <sprasad@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve French <stfrench@microsoft.com>