netlink: consistently use NLA_POLICY_EXACT_LEN()

Change places that open-code NLA_POLICY_EXACT_LEN() to
use the macro instead, giving us flexibility in how we
handle the details of the macro.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Acked-by: Matthieu Baerts <matthieu.baerts@tessares.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>