block: Add a new helper to attempt to merge a bio

There are lots of duplicated code when trying to merge a bio from
plug list and sw queue, we can introduce a new helper to attempt
to merge a bio, which can simplify the blk_bio_list_merge()
and blk_attempt_plug_merge().

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Baolin Wang <baolin.wang@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>