mnt_idmapping: decouple from namespaces

There's no reason we need to couple mnt idmapping to namespaces in the
way we currently do. Copy the idmapping when an idmapped mount is
created and don't take any reference on the namespace at all.

We also can't easily refcount struct uid_gid_map because it needs to
stay the size of a cacheline otherwise we risk performance regressions
(Ignoring for a second that right now struct uid_gid_map isn't actually
 64 byte but 72 but that's a fix for another patch series.).

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231122-vfs-mnt_idmap-v1-3-dae4abdde5bd@kernel.org


Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>