i40e/ixgbe/igb: fail on new WoL flag setting WAKE_MAGICSECURE

There's a new flag for setting WoL filters that is only
enabled on one manufacturer's NICs, and it's not ours. Fail
with EOPNOTSUPP.

Signed-off-by: Todd Fujinaka <todd.fujinaka@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>