nvme-fc and nvmet-fc: sync with FC-NVME-2 header changes

Sync sources with revised structure and field names to correspond with
FC-NVME-2 header sync-up.

Tested interoperability with success:
- prior initiator with new target
- prior target with new initiator
- new on new

Signed-off-by: James Smart <jsmart2021@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>