blk-mq: Rename BLK_MQ_F_TAG_SHARED as BLK_MQ_F_TAG_QUEUE_SHARED

BLK_MQ_F_TAG_SHARED actually means that tags is shared among request
queues, all of which should belong to LUNs attached to same HBA.

So rename it to make the point explicitly.

[jpg: rebase a few times, add rnbd-clt.c change]

Suggested-by: Bart Van Assche <bvanassche@acm.org>
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: John Garry <john.garry@huawei.com>
Tested-by: Douglas Gilbert <dgilbert@interlog.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>