drm/xe: Move vma rebinding to the drm_exec locking loop

Rebinding might allocate page-table bos, causing evictions.
To support blocking locking during these evictions,
perform the rebinding in the drm_exec locking loop.

Also Reserve fence slots where actually needed rather than trying to
predict how many fence slots will be needed over a complete
wound-wait transaction.

v2:
- Remove a leftover call to xe_vm_rebind() (Matt Brost)
- Add a helper function xe_vm_validate_rebind() (Matt Brost)
v3:
- Add comments and squash with previous patch (Matt Brost)

Fixes: 24f947d5 ("drm/xe: Use DRM GPUVM helpers for external- and evicted objects")
Fixes: 29f424eb

 ("drm/xe/exec: move fence reservation")
Cc: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240327091136.3271-5-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com
(cherry picked from commit 7ee7dd6f

)
Signed-off-by: Lucas De Marchi <lucas.demarchi@intel.com>