fscache: Use refcount_t for the cookie refcount instead of atomic_t

Use refcount_t for the fscache_cookie refcount instead of atomic_t and
rename the 'usage' member to 'ref' in such cases.  The tracepoints that
reference it change from showing "u=%d" to "r=%d".

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@redhat.com>
cc: linux-cachefs@redhat.com
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/162431204358.2908479.8006938388213098079.stgit@warthog.procyon.org.uk/