io_uring: get an active ref_node from files_data

An active ref_node always can be found in ctx->files_data, it's much
safer to get it this way instead of poking into files_data->ref_list.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v5.7+
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>