nvme: don't hold nvmf_transports_rwsem for more than transport lookups

Only take nvmf_transports_rwsem when doing a lookup of registered
transports, so that a blocking ->create_ctrl doesn't prevent other
actions on /dev/nvme-fabrics.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
[hch: increased lock hold time a bit to be safe, added a comment
 and updated the changelog]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>