CIFS: SMBD: Set SMB Direct maximum read or write size for I/O

When connecting over SMB Direct, the transport negotiates its maximum I/O sizes
with the server and determines how to choose to do RDMA send/recv vs
read/write. Expose these maximum I/O sizes to upper layer so we will get the
correct sized payloads.

Signed-off-by: Long Li <longli@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve French <smfrench@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Pavel Shilovsky <pshilov@microsoft.com>
Reviewed-by: Ronnie Sahlberg <lsahlber@redhat.com>