io_uring: move uring_lock location

->uring_lock is prevalently used for submission, even though it protects
many other things like iopoll, registeration, selected bufs, and more.
And it's placed together with ->cq_wait poked on completion and CQ
waiting sides. Move them apart, ->uring_lock goes to the submission
data, and cq_wait to completion related chunk. The last one requires
some reshuffling so everything needed by io_cqring_ev_posted*() is in
one cacheline.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/dea5e845caee4c98aa0922b46d713154d81f7bd8.1623709150.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>