fs/ext4: Only change S_DAX on inode load

To prevent complications with in memory inodes we only set S_DAX on
inode load.  FS_XFLAG_DAX can be changed at any time and S_DAX will
change after inode eviction and reload.

Add init bool to ext4_set_inode_flags() to indicate if the inode is
being newly initialized.

Assert that S_DAX is not set on an inode which is just being loaded.

Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200528150003.828793-6-ira.weiny@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>