idpf: add ethtool callbacks

Initialize all the ethtool ops that are supported by the driver and
add the necessary support for the ethtool callbacks. Also add
asynchronous link notification virtchnl support where the device
Control Plane sends the link status and link speed as an
asynchronous event message. Driver report the link speed on
ethtool .idpf_get_link_ksettings query.

Introduce soft reset function which is used by some of the ethtool
callbacks such as .set_channels, .set_ringparam etc. to change the
existing queue configuration. It deletes the existing queues by sending
delete queues virtchnl message to the CP and calls the 'vport_stop' flow
which disables the queues, vport etc. New set of queues are requested to
the CP and reconfigure the queue context by calling the 'vport_open'
flow. Soft reset flow also adjusts the number of vectors associated to a
vport if .set_channels is called.

Signed-off-by: Alan Brady <alan.brady@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Alice Michael <alice.michael@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Alice Michael <alice.michael@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Joshua Hay <joshua.a.hay@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Joshua Hay <joshua.a.hay@intel.com>
Co-developed-by: Phani Burra <phani.r.burra@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Phani Burra <phani.r.burra@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sridhar Samudrala <sridhar.samudrala@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Co-developed-by: Pavan Kumar Linga <pavan.kumar.linga@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Pavan Kumar Linga <pavan.kumar.linga@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>