wifi: mac80211: fix MLO + AP_VLAN check

Instead of preventing adding AP_VLAN to MLO enabled APs, this check was
preventing adding more than one 4-addr AP_VLAN regardless of the MLO status.
Fix this by adding missing extra checks.

Fixes: ae960ee9

 ("wifi: mac80211: prevent VLANs on MLDs")
Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221214130326.37756-1-nbd@nbd.name
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>