r8169: make use of xmit_more

There was a previous attempt to use xmit_more, but the change had to be
reverted because under load sometimes a transmit timeout occurred [0].
Maybe this was caused by a missing memory barrier, the new attempt
keeps the memory barrier before the call to netif_stop_queue like it
is used by the driver as of today. The new attempt also changes the
order of some calls as suggested by Eric.

[0] https://lkml.org/lkml/2019/2/10/39

Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>