btrfs: add an ordered_extent pointer to struct btrfs_bio

Add a pointer to the ordered_extent to the existing union in struct
btrfs_bio, so all code dealing with data write bios can just use a
pointer dereference to retrieve the ordered_extent instead of doing
multiple rbtree lookups per I/O.

The reference to this ordered_extent is dropped at end I/O time,
which implies that an extra one must be acquired when the bio is split.
This also requires moving the btrfs_extract_ordered_extent call into
btrfs_split_bio so that the invariant of always having a valid
ordered_extent reference for the btrfs_bio is kept.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>