io_uring: defer flushing cached reqs

Awhile there are requests in the allocation cache -- use them, only if
those ended go for the stashed memory in comp.free_list. As list
manipulation are generally heavy and are not good for caches, flush them
all or as much as can in one go.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
[axboe: return success/failure from io_flush_cached_reqs()]
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>