netfilter: nf_tables: add set element timeout support

Add API support for set element timeouts. Elements can have a individual
timeout value specified, overriding the sets' default.

Two new extension types are used for timeouts - the timeout value and
the expiration time. The timeout value only exists if it differs from
the default value.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>