netfilter: conntrack: fix vtag checks for ABORT/SHUTDOWN_COMPLETE

RFC 9260, Sec 8.5.1 states that for ABORT/SHUTDOWN_COMPLETE, the chunk
MUST be accepted if the vtag of the packet matches its own tag and the
T bit is not set OR if it is set to its peer's vtag and the T bit is set
in chunk flags. Otherwise the packet MUST be silently dropped.

Update vtag verification for ABORT/SHUTDOWN_COMPLETE based on the above
description.

Fixes: 9fb9cbb1

 ("[NETFILTER]: Add nf_conntrack subsystem.")
Signed-off-by: Sriram Yagnaraman <sriram.yagnaraman@est.tech>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>