tcp: add skb-less helpers to retrieve SYN cookie

This patch allows generation of a SYN cookie before an SKB has been
allocated, as is the case at XDP.

Signed-off-by: Petar Penkov <ppenkov@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Lorenz Bauer <lmb@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>