irqchip/gic-v4.1: Properly lock VPEs when doing a directLPI invalidation

We normally rely on the irq_to_cpuid_[un]lock() primitives to make
sure nothing will change col->idx while performing a LPI invalidation.

However, these primitives do not cover VPE doorbells, and we have
some open-coded locking for that. Unfortunately, this locking is
pretty bogus.

Instead, extend the above primitives to cover VPE doorbells and
convert the whole thing to it.

Fixes: f3a05921

 ("irqchip/gic-v4.1: Ensure mutual exclusion between vPE affinity change and RD access")
Reported-by: Kunkun Jiang <jiangkunkun@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>
Cc: Zenghui Yu <yuzenghui@huawei.com>
Cc: wanghaibin.wang@huawei.com
Tested-by: Kunkun Jiang <jiangkunkun@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Zenghui Yu <yuzenghui@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230617073242.3199746-1-maz@kernel.org