drbd: don't forget error completion when "unsuspending" IO

Possibly sequence of events:
SyncTarget is made Primary, then loses replication link
(only path to good data on SyncSource).

Behavior is then controlled by the on-no-data-accessible policy,
which defaults to OND_IO_ERROR (may be set to OND_SUSPEND_IO).

If OND_IO_ERROR is in fact the current policy, we clear the susp_fen
(IO suspended due to fencing policy) flag, do NOT set the susp_nod
(IO suspended due to no data) flag.

But we forgot to call the IO error completion for all pending,
suspended, requests.

While at it, also add a race check for a theoretically possible
race with a new handshake (network hickup), we may be able to
re-send requests, and can avoid passing IO errors up the stack.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>