veth: rely on peer veth_rq for ndo_xdp_xmit accounting

Rely on 'remote' veth_rq to account ndo_xdp_xmit ethtool counters.
Move XDP_TX accounting to veth_xdp_flush_bq routine.
Remove 'rx' prefix in rx xdp ethool counters

Signed-off-by: Lorenzo Bianconi <lorenzo@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Toshiaki Makita <toshiaki.makita1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>