io_uring: optimise io_init_req() flags setting

Invalid req->flags are tolerated by free/put well, avoid this dancing
needlessly presetting it to zero, and then not even resetting but
modifying it, i.e. "|=".

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>