block: add a max_user_discard_sectors queue limit

Add a new max_user_discard_sectors limit that mirrors max_user_sectors
and stores the value that the user manually set.  This now allows
updates of the max_hw_discard_sectors to not worry about the user
limit.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240213073425.1621680-7-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>