btrfs: do not BUG_ON() on tree mod log failure at __btrfs_cow_block()

At __btrfs_cow_block(), instead of doing a BUG_ON() in case we fail to
record a tree mod log root insertion operation, do a transaction abort
instead. There's really no need for the BUG_ON(), we can properly
release all resources in this context and turn the filesystem to RO mode
and in an error state instead.

CC: stable@vger.kernel.org # 5.4+
Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>