nbd: use set_capacity_and_notify

Use set_capacity_and_notify to update the disk and block device sizes and
send a RESIZE uevent to userspace.  Note that blktests relies on uevents
being sent also for updates that did not change the device size, so the
explicit kobject_uevent remains for that case.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>