txhash: Add socket option to control TX hash rethink behavior

Add the SO_TXREHASH socket option to control hash rethink behavior per socket.
When default mode is set, sockets disable rehash at initialization and use
sysctl option when entering listen state. setsockopt() overrides default
behavior.

Signed-off-by: Akhmat Karakotov <hmukos@yandex-team.ru>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>