block: remove QUEUE_FLAG_DEAD

Disallow setting the blk-mq state on any queue that is already dying as
setting the state even then is a bad idea, and remove the now unused
QUEUE_FLAG_DEAD flag.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220619060552.1850436-4-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>