libbpf: Generalize common logic for managing dynamically-sized arrays

Managing dynamically-sized array is a common, but not trivial functionality,
which significant amount of logic and code to implement properly. So instead
of re-implementing it all the time, extract it into a helper function ans
reuse.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200926011357.2366158-4-andriin@fb.com