staging: ion: Prevent incorrect reference counting behavour

Supply additional checks in order to prevent unexpected results.

Fixes: b892bf75

 ("ion: Switch ion to use dma-buf")
Suggested-by: Dan Carpenter <dan.carpenter@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Lee Jones <lee.jones@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>