bpf: Enable retrieval of socket cookie for bind/post-bind hook

We currently make heavy use of the socket cookie in BPF's connect(),
sendmsg() and recvmsg() hooks for load-balancing decisions. However,
it is currently not enabled/implemented in BPF {post-}bind hooks
where it can later be used in combination for correlation in the tc
egress path, for example.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/e9d71f310715332f12d238cc650c1edc5be55119.1585323121.git.daniel@iogearbox.net