drm/xe: Don't initialize fences at xe_sched_job_create()

Pre-allocate but don't initialize fences at xe_sched_job_create(),
and initialize / arm them instead at xe_sched_job_arm(). This
makes it possible to move xe_sched_job_create() with its memory
allocation out of any lock that is required for fence
initialization, and that may not allow memory allocation under it.

Replaces the struct dma_fence_array for parallell jobs with a
struct dma_fence_chain, since the former doesn't allow
a split-up between allocation and initialization.

v2:
- Rebase.
- Don't always use the first lrc when initializing parallel
  lrc fences.
- Use dma_fence_chain_contained() to access the lrc fences.

v4:
- Add an assert that job->lrc_seqno == fence->seqno.
  (Matthew Brost)

Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com> #v2
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240527135912.152156-4-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com