ipv4, bpf: Introduced to support the ULP to modify

sockets during setopt

hulk inclusion
category: feature
bugzilla: https://gitee.com/openeuler/kernel/issues/I7LE1H



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Currently, the ebpf program can distinguish sockets according to
the address accessed by the client, and use the ULP framework to
modify the matched sockets to delay link establishment.

Signed-off-by: zhang-mingyi66 <zhangmingyi5@huawei.com>