hns3 udma: support modify tp and destroy tp

driver inclusion
category: feature
bugzilla: https://gitee.com/openeuler/kernel/issues/I85R2F


CVE: NA

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URMA uses the modify_tp function to modify the attributes of tp.
UDMA driver will update qp context to hardware based on the value
of mask.

Signed-off-by: Yu Zhang <zhangyu709@huawei.com>