habanalabs: add support for graceful hard reset

Calling hl_device_reset() for a hard reset will lead to a quite
immediate device reset and to killing user process.
For resets that follow errors, it disables the option to debug the
errors on both the device side and the user application side.

This patch adds a 'graceful hard reset' option and a new
hl_device_cond_reset() function.
Under some conditions, mainly if there is no user process or if he is
not registered to driver notifications, this function will execute hard
reset as usual.
Otherwise, the reset will be postponed and a notification will be sent
to user, to let him perform post-error actions and then to release the
device, after which reset will take place.

If device is not released by user in some defined time, a watchdog work
will execute the reset in any case.

Signed-off-by: Tomer Tayar <ttayar@habana.ai>
Reviewed-by: Oded Gabbay <ogabbay@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Oded Gabbay <ogabbay@kernel.org>