net/smc: improved fix wait on already cleared link

stable inclusion
from stable-v5.10.90
commit 99f19566b1c4d3dc4d934ee2ef43faadebb56d70
bugzilla: 186168 https://gitee.com/openeuler/kernel/issues/I4SHY1

Reference: https://git.kernel.org/pub/scm/linux/kernel/git/stable/linux.git/commit/?id=99f19566b1c4d3dc4d934ee2ef43faadebb56d70



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[ Upstream commit 95f7f3e7 ]

Commit 8f3d65c1 ("net/smc: fix wait on already cleared link")
introduced link refcounting to avoid waits on already cleared links.
This patch extents and improves the refcounting to cover all
remaining possible cases for this kind of error situation.

Fixes: 15e1b99a ("net/smc: no WR buffer wait for terminating link group")
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Chen Jun <chenjun102@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Zheng Zengkai <zhengzengkai@huawei.com>