RDMA/hns: Use refcount_t instead of atomic_t for SRQ reference counting

mainline inclusion
from mainline-v5.12-rc1
commit 33649cd3
category: bugfix
bugzilla: 174002
CVE:NA

Reference: https://git.kernel.org/pub/scm/linux/kernel/git/torvalds/linux.git/commit/?id=33649cd3f9497523c7110337b9c6f08ab43746c6

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The refcount_t API will WARN on underflow and overflow of a reference
counter, and avoid use-after-free risks.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1622194663-2383-10-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com


Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: wangsirong <wangsirong@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: ChunZhi Hu <huchunzhi@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Zheng Zengkai <zhengzengkai@huawei.com>