crypto/chelsio/chtls: send/recv window update

mainline inclusion
from mainline-4.20
commit 0c3a16be
category: bugfix
bugzilla: 5985
CVE: NA

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recalculated send and receive window using linkspeed.
Determine correct value of eck_ok from SYN received and
option configured on local system.

Signed-off-by: Atul Gupta <atul.gupta@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Mao Wenan <maowenan@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: YueHaibing <yuehaibing@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Yang Yingliang <yangyingliang@huawei.com>