RDMA/hns: Add UD support for HIP09

mainline inclusion
from mainline-v5.11-rc1
commit 66d86e52
category: feature
bugzilla: 174002
CVE:NA

Reference: https://git.kernel.org/pub/scm/linux/kernel/git/torvalds/linux.git/commit/?id=66d86e529dd58616495ea0b03cc687e5d6522b59

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HIP09 supports service type of Unreliable Datagram, add necessary process
to enable this feature.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1605526408-6936-7-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com


Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: wangsirong <wangsirong@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: ChunZhi Hu <huchunzhi@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Zheng Zengkai <zhengzengkai@huawei.com>