blk-mq: pass in request/bio flags to queue mapping

Prep patch for being able to place request based not just on
CPU location, but also on the type of request.

Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>