net/mlx5: E-Switch, Introduce set vport vlan (VST mode)

Add query and modify functions to control client vlan and qos
striping or insertion, in E-Switch vports contexts.

Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>