samples/bpf: xdp_monitor use tracepoint xdp:xdp_devmap_xmit

The xdp_monitor sample/tool is updated to use the new tracepoint
xdp:xdp_devmap_xmit the previous patch just introduced.

Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>