ceph: tolerate (and warn on) extraneous dentry from mds

If the MDS gives us a dentry and we weren't prepared to handle it,
WARN_ON_ONCE instead of crashing.

Reported-by: Yan, Zheng <zheng.z.yan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>