IB/rdma_cm: TOS <=> UP mapping for IBoE

Both tagged traffic and untagged traffic use tc tool mapping.
Treat RDMA TOS same as IP TOS when mapping to SL

Signed-off-by: Amir Vadai <amirv@mellanox.com>
CC: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>